When YumSugar asked me to watch the pilot episode of Food Network's new cooking show, Down Home With the Neelys, I wasn't jumping for joy. The commercials seemed over the top, routine, and like the network had just found more big personalities. However, after watching the show — I laughed out loud — I was hungry for more!
Luckily, I got the chance to speak with Gina and Pat on the phone! They are one warm, fun couple and my Tivo is already set for tomorrow at 11 a.m.
The show is not only a clever, informative cooking show, but it's about the dynamic relationship between the high school sweethearts. Gina Neely is a firecracker, both friendly and feisty. Her husband Pat knows his barbeque and is incredibly personable. To see what happened when I went down home with the Neelys, read more.
With their show Pat and Gina hope to teach America that cooking is a great time to get back to the basics. It's a way to slow down and enjoy family. Food is family to the Neelys, who take a week to film each episode at a rented house in Memphis, Tenn. Known for their barbeque and down home Southern-style cooking, Pat and Gina distinguish themselves from Food Network's resident Southern belle Paula Deen by cooking a healthier cuisine. They steer clear from frying. They grill everything and love to use barbeque flavors to season unexpected dishes. Here's what they have to say:
PartySugar: What's it like being in the business together?
Pat: It's one of the biggest joys in the world working with family. I get to spend every day with my lovely wife. I have extremely workable brothers. The employees at my restaurants are like extended family. Now the producers of my show have become family. Food Network has become like family. We've opened our arms and welcomed everyone into our lives like family.
Gina: Our girls — we have two daughters — work with us in the Summer. I couldn't imagine doing everything that we do alone. The best part is doing it together.
PS: Do you cook at home like you do on the show?
Pat: (laughs) There is no acting involved in our show. Of course we cook at home. We've been cooking at home like this for a long time, way before the concept of the show was even invented. At least two to three times a week we're at home cooking dinner in our kitchen. Thats what makes our show so authentic, it is our lives. It really is who we are.

PS: What's your advice to the everyday home cook?
Gina: Cooking is NOT intimidating, it's not as time consuming or as hard as it seems. It's comforting to use natural products to make something homemade.
Pat: Watch the show! Use food to socially interact. To reconnect with family and friends. Invite your girlfriend over and bake a chicken for her, chat and relax while it cooks. You can really learn a lot about your loved ones by cooking with them.
PS: How will you celebrate Valentine's Day?
Pat: When you are in a good marriage like Gina and I are, every day is like Valentine's Day. We don't need a special day to spend time together we spend time together every day. I fell in love with Gina when I was 15, and I've been in love with her ever since.
Gina: I'll probably make Pat a strawberry shortcake with whipped cream.
PS: What did you have for lunch today?
Pat: We had Cornish game hens.
Gina: And grilled asparagus with barbequed butter. Our barbequed butter is made by stirring our barbeque rub into softened butter.
After speaking with them, I want to be a part of their family! And if that wasn't enough to make you interested in their show, here's a sneak peak of the dishes that are yet to come: barbequed ribs, fresh coleslaw, barbeque spaghetti, creamed collard greens, pork chop soup, grilled pound cake, and baked chicken.






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I want that asparagus! I may have to check out this show.
1I saw a promo for this and I think it would look like a fun show. They seem so animated as compared to the dry, boring personalities on Food Network. Also, I'm glad to see some African-Americans on the show for once. They are such a cute couple.
2I love food and this couple is so beautiful they gotta make good food. I love her purple blouse. I'll be watching for sure. BBQ butter is so simple, but so over the top.
3I can't wait to watch this show! My boyfriend and I just moved from Memphis (his hometown) and we love every restaurant that the Neely family owns. YUM!
4I'd like to see this!
5I want to be part of their family too!! They are too good to be true...
6Bring on the BBQ. Just in time for spring.
7I agree, haute77. Wow, thanks for the info. I had no idea and I will be checking this out.
8That sounds interesting. I love comfort food and it'll be good to see some different personalities on the Food Network, especially people of color!
9Oh, shnap! Black folks on TV Network. This ought to be good...! I will be tuning in, and hopefully they won't be using as much fat and grease as Paula. She seems like she just guzzle butter like it's fruit punch.
10I am excited for this new show. All the other ones are starting to bore me.lol
11dont know her, kinda feel like i should lol
12yay!!! Im really excited because they have my family name and doing their thing in a positive way. I love it!!! they do look cute right? I think so! I think they are going to overturn the dynamic of the black family shown on tv. MUCH LOVE AND LUCK!
13LOL @ LEANNELUVSU haha...that sounds pretty bad, that is going to be the new flavor of minute maid punch.
14I would like to start by saying I love your program. It is so refreshing to see people like my self are so loving and not making a fool of them self on tv. I watch your program with my children and we love you. Thank you for being who you are!!!!!
15I need help on a good receipe for salmon croquettes. Everytime I make them and fry them, they come out like egg fu young. What am I doing wrong. Please help!
16I love this show, this show got me and my husband in the kitchen together. He like pat is the chopper of every thing in this family. I also love seeing a loving African American couple on the TV screen cooking together. When I saw that this was coming on I tuned in on the very first day. I have even used some of their recipes and loved them, especially there Gumbo, it was easy and not as expensive. I want to thank the Food Network for adding African American's to there "In the Kitchen" line up I watch the channel even more now.
17This sounds like such a good show, unfortunately I live in the Uk so wont get to watch! I run www.foodsnappers.com so always interested in anything food related!
18Hi mrs.gina neely i am writing a report about you and i am wondering if you could give me some information to go along with the report if you don't mind... e-mail me at slimdog35@yahoo.com
19i love this couple and every thing they do.
20email me please castries st lucia caribbean girl.
21i love you baby email me please 1963-2nov-@live.com.
22i am from the caribbean.
Is it me or does Gena look pregnant ?i think its time for a little Pat Jr.
23I was wondering the same thing, is Gina Neely pregnant?
24WHAT CAN I SAY! WHATCHING THE TWO OF YOU IS SUCH A BLESSING I LOVE THE CHEMISTRY AND THE CONNECTION THAT YOU TWO HAVE, IT'S LIKE SEEING MY GRANDPARENTS ALL OVER AGAIN,THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE, AND FOOD RESIPE'S. WHEN I SEE THE TWO OF YOU I SEE THE GLORY OF GOD.
KIM
25Hey y'all, just wanted to say how it is such a pleasure watching your show. I am recently married and the both of you not only give me great recipes but also advice on maintaining a long healthy marriage (with the best sense of humor). Only show of its kind on the network. Kudos to you both!!!! We love u!
26Pat & Gina, you guys are our favorite to watch on food network. Hey, guess what? We're going to visit you in Memphis next week (June 5th & 6th). It will be our 9th anniversary (June 5th) and we want to celebrate it "Down home the the Neely's".(smile) Keep on doing what you do, you do it so well! See you guys soon.
27Hello Pat& Gina
I'm lost when cooking pork chop.I tried to fry them that don't work for my boy friend. I was listening to a barbecue recipe for pork chop on your show would you please send it to me.
P.S
Keep the good work up, I love the show
28I love YOUR SHOW. I DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE COOKING NECESSARILY. I JUST WATCH BECAUSE YOU ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER. IT IS OBVIOUS YOU ARE CRAZY ABOUT EACH OTHER AND I LOVE TO SEE YOU PAT FLIRT WITH GINA. YOU ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER, IT REALLY MAKES MY DAY TO SEE 2 PEOPLE SO IN LOVE AND CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER. KEEP IT UP....YOU ARE SO DARN ADORABLE.
29I'm a terrible cook. The recipes you two make on the show look so easy but I mess them up when I try them. Anyway, I still love the show and the chemistry y'all have. I'll be in Memphis next month and will be in to your restaurant to eat too!
30Hi Pat and Gina,
31I enjoy watching your show. What I would really like to know is where Gina buys her beautiful blouses. You always look so nice Gina. Email me--dnlugo@hotmail.com
Thanks for a entertaining show.
Denice
my husband and i are trying to cook together, so far were loving it. when your show comes on my husband says honey the Neelys are on lets print out their recipes and cook them . We play and touch and kiss. And guest what i am the sugar plum ding a ling ling. love you guys
32HEY YOU GUYS I AM ADDICTED TO YOUR SHOW KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK
33I made your black eyed pea salad with tomatoes, red pepper, jalapeno pepper, and onion salad yesterday. I had to substitute black beans for the black eyed peas because black eyed peas are not easy to find in our markets (unbelievable, huh?) I asked the manager of the Safeway where I shop and he said he would check into it because he had no idea why they didn't stock them. Any, that salad is a keeper! I am axious to try your collard greens with the sundried tomatoes but have not been able to find and decent greens.
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