Ah, another Hooters girl working hard for the money attention. This chick mastered a crowd pleasing "sit and spin" trick to zest up her usual beer-serving duties. Round and round she goes, pouring drinks and dizzying up herself to excite a room full of gawking pervs. Her reward? A round of applause — from a room full of gawking pervs. (Thanks, College Humor!)
Party Foul: Understaffed Bar
A few Fridays ago, I attended the opening of a new club. The party was great; there was no line to get in, our names were actually on the list, it wasn't overcrowded, and the music was perfect! What put me in a bad mood very quickly was the wait to get a drink. The bar was completely understaffed. I stood at the front of the bar trying to get the bartender's attention for a half an hour! I know it's hard to make a lot of drinks super quickly — I was a bartender once — but the owner should know how many bartenders are needed based on the amount of people invited.
This is something to consider when hosting any party — a wedding, a birthday, or a shower — with a staffed bar. If you don't want guests (or bartenders) getting cranky because they had to wait forever for a cocktail, be sure your bar is staffed appropriately.
So what's the longest you've ever had to wait to get a drink? Have you ever left a party or bar because it took too long to get served?
YumSugar Gift Guide: The Bartending Boy

My friend Antonio is the best bartender I know. He's always looking for the latest, greatest addition to his home bar. Both Antonio, and your bartending boy, are sure to love any of these gifts.
Sleek coasters, a foil cutter, and a bar travel set are all fun and functional. A personalized bottle of Johnnie Walker Blue is a splurge well worth the price.
For more gift ideas for the bartender in your life, browse below.
Gift Guide: Tool Sets for the Hotshot Bartender

Maybe I'm just channeling pre-rehab Lindsay Lohan, but I really can't get through the holidays without a stiff drink. The stress of last-minute shopping, the anxious anticipation of seeing relatives again, the cocktail party small-talk, the reindeer jumpers, and the "how is your love life?" parental interrogations have me reaching for the bottle until January 1st. If it weren't for the hotshot bartenders in my life, I'd consider skipping the holidays altogether. You know the hotshot bartender. He (or she) is the first to uncork a bottle of wine, the first to mix the festive "peppermint" cocktails, and the last to serve himself a drink. This year, treat the holiday savior, and master mixologist in your life to the tools of the trade: a bar set. I've rounded up several bar tool sets at various price points for the guy (or gal) who makes your holidays fun. That is, for those of us who don't still believe in Santa Claus.
Party Foul: Mixing Wines
I recently attended an event with CasaSugar; at the bar she ordered a glass of Pinot Grigio. The bartender filled her glass halfway with the last of an open bottle. Needing more wine to fill her glass, he quickly grabbed an unopened bottle and went about twisting a corkscrew. However, he failed to look at the bottle and topped her half full glass of Pinot Grigio with Riesling! I was shocked; mixing wine varieties is NOT okay and if a bartender or waiter does this to you, call them out and send the wine back.
What do you think? Has this ever happened to you? What party fouls have you witnessed a bartender make?
Bartender's Simple Tip: Cool Warm Glasses
In a bar, glasses and dishes are constantly being washed. A bartender will often make a cold cocktail, but find that the only clean glasses are those hot from the dishwasher. Instead of panicking, there is an effortless trick that most bartenders use — and I do at home — hold the hot glass under cold running water. The cold water will quickly change the temperature of the glass. Once the glass has cooled in your hands, dry, and pour your cocktail.
You Asked: He Wants Sex Late at Night
Dear Sugar--
I went to a bar with some friends about a month ago and met this great guy, the bartender actually. He asked for my number that night and we’ve been dating ever since. Our relationship is amazing. We have a lot in common, he makes me laugh, helps fix things around my apartment, is so sweet with my baby niece, and we have the MOST amazing mind-blowing sex – hands down, the best I’ve ever had!
The only problem is that he works really late at night, and after his shift he’ll come over, wake me up at like 3 AM, all turned on, trying to take my PJs off (and I just can’t say “no”). We don’t get to bed until at least an hour later. It's awesome that we have this physical connection --and I’m not complaining about the sex-- but I have to get up really early in the morning for work and I'm just exhausted! He does this at least 3 times a week. Since our relationship is so new, I’m worried that if I talk to him about it, we may lose our spontaneous passion. Any suggestions?
--Satisfied but Tired Tana
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Extreme Bartending
I would be so irritated if I sidled up to a bar and this guy was my bartender. Thinking he's Tom Cruise from that awful movie Cocktail, this dude is balancing bottles on his head and juggling drinks. You know everyone's all, "Uh, could you just give me my freakin' gin and tonic already?!"
Time For A Monkey Joke!
Apparently, my job's so easy...even a monkey could do it! (Not funny.)
Happy Hour: Strawberry Beret
The other night I met my friend Adam to grab a few drinks. We headed over to Rye, which is a pretty hip, modern (yet completely inviting) new bar here in San Francisco. When it came my turn to order, I asked the bartender what her favorite drink to make was. This, by the way, is my absolute favorite question to ask a bartender (especially if she/he is not crazy busy). You'll experience some of the greatest drinks and most of them are pretty excited about it. This lovely lady bartender did not let me down. She simply smiled, asked if I was allergic to strawberries, and then went to town. In a few minutes I was presented with an amazing drink that she dubbed "Strawberry Beret." It was DELICIOUS.
Since most of you won't be able to make it out to Rye, I've decided to share her recipe with you. I only wish I could remember her name to give her proper credit.
Strawberry Beret
From the lovely blonde bartender at Rye
Sorry, there aren't any exact measurements, she's a pro and did it by eye.
Strawberries (approximately 3)
Basil (several leaves)
Juice from half a Lime
Gin
Lillet (white)
Simple Syrup
In a shaker, muddle fresh strawberries and basil with a few squeezes of simple syrup. Squeeze in juice from half a lime. Add gin, top with Lillet. Shake and then strain over ice into an old-fashioned style glass.
This was tasty, tasty, tasty. A nice summery drink that was unbelievable in the winter.